During a panic attack, relaxation techniques such as slower breathing, sensory grounding, gentle muscle release, and simple calming statements may help reduce the sense of alarm. The goal is not to force every symptom to stop immediately. Instead, focus on creating a little more steadiness while the episode passes and deciding whether medical or crisis support is needed.

Start with slow, comfortable breathing

Panic can make breathing feel fast, shallow, or difficult to control. Trying to take very large breaths may feel uncomfortable for some people. A gentler approach is to slow the pace without forcing the breath.

  • Breathe in comfortably through your nose, then let the exhale last slightly longer than the inhale.
  • Keep your shoulders loose and allow your abdomen to move naturally.
  • If counting feels helpful, use a simple rhythm. Stop counting if it adds pressure or frustration.
  • Return your attention to the next exhale whenever frightening thoughts pull it away.

If focusing on breathing makes you feel more distressed, switch to grounding through sight, sound, or touch. A relaxation strategy should be adapted to the moment rather than treated as a test you must complete correctly.

Use the senses to reconnect with the present

Grounding directs attention toward immediate, concrete information. It can be useful when panic creates feelings of unreality, racing thoughts, or an intense focus on physical sensations.

  • Name several things you can see, including their colors, shapes, or positions.
  • Notice the pressure of your feet on the floor or your back against a chair.
  • Identify nearby sounds without judging whether they are pleasant or unpleasant.
  • Hold a cool object or touch a textured surface and describe the sensation to yourself.
  • Repeat your name, your location, and the current date if orientation feels difficult.

Choose neutral details rather than searching your body for evidence that something is wrong. The purpose is to widen your attention beyond the panic response.

Release tension without straining

Panic may come with a clenched jaw, raised shoulders, tight hands, or rigid posture. Gentle muscle release can provide a physical cue that you do not need to brace as strongly.

Try softening one area at a time. Unclench your hands, lower your shoulders, loosen your tongue from the roof of your mouth, and place both feet on a stable surface. You can briefly tense a muscle group and then release it, but avoid painful movements or breath-holding. If you have an injury or medical limitation, choose movements that feel safe for you.

A quieter environment may also help. When possible, move away from bright lights, crowds, or loud noise. If leaving would be unsafe, stay where you are and focus on one stable visual point.

Respond to panic with simple, realistic language

During panic, thoughts can become urgent and catastrophic. Short, believable statements may be easier to use than trying to argue with every fear. You might remind yourself, “I am having a strong fear response,” “I can take this one moment at a time,” or “I can ask for help if I need it.”

The National Institute of Mental Health overview of panic disorder explains that panic attacks can involve intense fear and physical symptoms. Because some panic symptoms can overlap with medical problems, do not assume a new, severe, or unusual symptom is only anxiety.

Know when relaxation is not enough

Relaxation techniques are coping tools, not emergency care or a substitute for medical evaluation. Seek urgent medical help for symptoms that could indicate a medical emergency, particularly when symptoms are new, severe, different from prior panic attacks, or accompanied by loss of consciousness or significant physical danger.

If there is an immediate safety concern, a risk of self-harm or harm to someone else, or another behavioral health crisis, call 988 or 911. The NIMH guidance for finding help also identifies crisis and emergency support options.

Do not drive if your symptoms make driving unsafe. If another person is present, ask them to stay nearby, reduce noise, speak calmly, and help you contact emergency support when necessary.

How family or friends can offer support

A support person can be helpful without taking control. They can ask what would feel most useful, offer a quieter place, breathe slowly alongside the person, or name neutral details in the room. Calm, brief communication is generally easier to process than repeated questions.

  • Avoid telling the person to “just calm down” or dismissing the physical intensity of the experience.
  • Ask before touching, hugging, or moving the person.
  • Support a choice between two manageable options, such as sitting down or standing near an exit.
  • Call 988 or 911 when the situation involves a crisis or immediate danger.

When recurring panic may call for outpatient care

If panic attacks recur, lead to persistent worry, or cause avoidance of work, relationships, travel, or other activities, a behavioral health assessment may help clarify possible next steps. Read more about panic disorder symptoms and treatment considerations.

Merrimack Valley Behavioral Health offers adult outpatient PHP, IOP, OP, dual-diagnosis care, and Virtual IOP. Virtual IOP is available only while the participant is physically in Massachusetts. In-person treatment is provided at 77 Elm St, Amesbury, MA 01913.

Outpatient treatment does not include continuous supervision. MVBH does not provide onsite detox, inpatient or residential care, overnight stays, or emergency care. Someone who needs medical stabilization, around-the-clock monitoring, onsite detox, or immediate crisis intervention may require a different level of care.

What happens when you call MVBH

To ask about adult outpatient care, call 978-233-9597. The initial call can address questions about the programs and begin a prescreen. A prescreen helps determine whether moving forward to an intake may be appropriate, but it does not promise admission or confirm that a program will be suitable.

If the next step is an intake, that process gathers information about current concerns and treatment needs so an appropriate level of care can be considered. Coverage varies by plan, and callers can confirm their benefits. If outpatient care does not match the person’s needs, another type or level of support may be necessary.

Frequently asked questions

What is the quickest relaxation technique to try during panic?

There is no single technique that works fastest for everyone. A practical first step is a comfortable breath with a slightly longer exhale, followed by naming visible objects or noticing your feet on the floor.

What should I do if breathing exercises increase anxiety?

Stop focusing on your breath and try an external grounding method. Describe nearby objects, listen for distinct sounds, or feel the support of a chair beneath you.

Can outpatient care help with recurring panic attacks?

Outpatient care may be considered when recurring panic affects daily life and the person can participate safely without overnight or emergency support. A prescreen and intake can help assess the appropriate next step.